The Least Creepy Way To Approach a Woman in Public That Has a 100% Success Rate

The Least Creepy Way To Approach a Woman in Public That Has a 100% Success Rate

In one way or another, you will win.

For years, men have been complaining on the internet about how difficult it is to talk to a woman in public. They say they are single because there is no longer a correct way to speak to an unknown lady on the street, so it feels impossible to meet anyone right now. They blame feminism, modernism, and even free expression—anything except themselves. They have not stopped to think about the real problem here: the method.

Many women are open to meeting people in spontaneous ways. I’ve been one of those who has met wonderful people in the most random ways possible. However, the way you do it matters.

Over my 27 years, I have been approached by many different types of men in public. And most of them have been creepy about it, making me feel unsafe or uncomfortable. And it’s not that I’m against meeting strangers; it’s just that the way they’ve always wanted to talk to me has always been to try to invade my peace and personal space.

So here I will tell you the correct way to approach a woman in public that has a 100% success rate, according to my experience, because either way, you will be a winner.

The "100% Success" Approach

This approach hinges on respect for personal boundaries and understanding that a woman's comfort is paramount.

1. Observe and Respect: Before approaching, observe the woman. Is she engaged in conversation, reading, or clearly focused on something else? If so, respect her space.
2. Approach with a Genuine Compliment (If Applicable): If you genuinely admire something about her (e.g., her style, a piece of jewelry), offer a sincere and brief compliment. Keep it simple and avoid overly personal or suggestive remarks.
3. Open-Ended Question (Optional): If the situation feels natural, follow up with an open-ended question related to your compliment. For example, "I love your boots! Where did you get them?"
4. Read Her Cues: Pay close attention to her body language. Is she smiling, making eye contact, or engaging in the conversation? If she seems uncomfortable, dismissive, or distracted, politely excuse yourself.
5. The "Win-Win"
   • Positive Outcome: If she reciprocates the interaction, you've opened the door to a potential conversation.
   • Respectful Retreat: If she's not interested, you've maintained your dignity and shown respect for her boundaries.

Key Takeaways:

• Focus on Respect: Prioritize her comfort and personal space.
• Be Genuine: Offer sincere compliments and engage in genuine conversation.
• Read the Room: Pay attention to her cues and be prepared to gracefully withdraw if she's not interested.

Disclaimer: This approach is not a guaranteed "pick-up line" or a manipulation tactic. It's about respectful human interaction.

Remember: Even if she's not interested in a conversation, you've still "won" by demonstrating respect and understanding of personal boundaries.

Important Note: This blog post focuses on a general approach. Every woman is different, and what works for one may not work for another.

By adopting this respectful and considerate approach, you increase your chances of positive interactions and demonstrate that you value women's comfort and autonomy.

Disclaimer: This blog post offers general advice and does not guarantee any specific outcomes.

This blog post aims to provide a more ethical and respectful perspective on approaching women in public. It emphasizes the importance of respecting personal boundaries and prioritizing a woman's comfort.